S.M.I.L.E

What do u see when u look at urself in the mirror...??
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
Is it true that gals, no matter how beautiful u are, constantly remind urself that ur fat or look so awful.. and on the other hand, guys, no matter how less than perfect they are, seem to have an alter-ego of a hunk.. *_*
Well, maybe not, but it never fails to amaze me.. how u look at urself and say to urself every single day influence the way u feel and somehow helps build ur personality. Why are we being so hard on ourselves, why we constantly remind ourselves that we are not as good as our friends, our siblings, our neighbours, or, that lady across the street. We should appreciate what have been given to us, embrace our flaws and work from there to improve ourselves, nobody is perfect. Love yourself, only then you can be loved by others. Speak up when you feel the need to be heard, never let anyone judge you. And if u feel things are not workin out the way u want them to, take a deep breath, look at the situation from a different angle, talk to a friend.. sort it out from there. For every problem, there's a solution, u just need to look in the right direction. Maybe, ur biggest problem might not be that big a problem at all...
I was told, during a motivational talk, that positive thoughts and phrases often builds a positive personality.. so, every morning, when u look at urself in the mirror, tell yourself that today is gonna be a great day and u feel like ur on top of the world, and get set to face anything that comes your way with a S.M.I.L.E. For we only live once, and for once live it the way u want to..