One of a kind..

When you say i expect too much from you

do you really understand what i ask for

when you say i ask too much from,

do you know what i wish for..

How can you say that you understand

when you never heard what i said

how can u say you tried your best

when you never seem to have tried at all..

I don need time to heal

to heal i need you

and when i need you the most

you might not have the time

which i do understand for most of the time

and try not to mind

but when too often done 

even the strongest of hearts could not bear the hurt

and i wish it was undone..

For love is only one

that gives you tears in a smile

and all the more

when your love is mine..

S.M.I.L.E

What do u see when u look at urself in the mirror...??
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
Is it true that gals, no matter how beautiful u are, constantly remind urself that ur fat or look so awful.. and on the other hand, guys, no matter how less than perfect they are, seem to have an alter-ego of a hunk.. *_*
Well, maybe not, but it never fails to amaze me.. how u look at urself and say to urself every single day influence the way u feel and somehow helps build ur personality. Why are we being so hard on ourselves, why we constantly remind ourselves that we are not as good as our friends, our siblings, our neighbours, or, that lady across the street. We should appreciate what have been given to us, embrace our flaws and work from there to improve ourselves, nobody is perfect. Love yourself, only then you can be loved by others. Speak up when you feel the need to be heard, never let anyone judge you. And if u feel things are not workin out the way u want them to, take a deep breath, look at the situation from a different angle, talk to a friend.. sort it out from there. For every problem, there's a solution, u just need to look in the right direction. Maybe, ur biggest problem might not be that big a problem at all...
I was told, during a motivational talk, that positive thoughts and phrases often builds a positive personality.. so, every morning, when u look at urself in the mirror, tell yourself that today is gonna be a great day and u feel like ur on top of the world, and get set to face anything that comes your way with a S.M.I.L.E. For we only live once, and for once live it the way u want to..

Cocktail of Emotions

Have u ever felt like u are at the most happening place in town and yet feel extremely bored.. or when u are hangin out wiv ur best buddies, laughin away but still feel like there's something missing, big time??

Most of us might have felt that way, once in a while, but when u constantly feel that way, u could pretty much be depressed and that requires immediate attention!!

I guess i could relate to that, my mind is somewhere and my heart somewhere else... it's just getting too much to bear when everything is kept inside, bottled up. No matter how understanding we try to be, there's always a fine line that shud never be crossed. Once in a while, might not be so bad we can still brush it off effortlessly, but too much of anythin is never good. Sometimes we have to let it out, speak our mind, and demand some attention from others, esspecially people who are an important part of our lives. The only problem is courage. We tend to wait for the perfect time to discuss an issue, and often dissapointed coz tht perfect moment never arrives, and continue to be hopelessly depressed.

Note to self -  "Do not wait for a perfect moment to come around, create one. Sometimes, to get the attention of others, you have to speak up. Take a deep breath, explain yourself, all the why's and how's or what's, keep a lookout on how things move on from there. Give yourself and others sometime to think about it. Wait and see if anything good came out of these efforts... for better or for worst, I decide the path of my life." (sounds so simple.. but reality bites!!)

Jealousy Is Not Love!

I'm sure everyone have come across or dealt with a certain emotion called 'Jealousy'. Whether it's towards a friend, someone in the family or mainly just towards your significant other. It's one emotion that u just can't stop relating to girls, well, maybe coz it's obvious that some girls (no offence) get all green with envy for all the wrong reason. Many people get the wrong idea that by feeling jealous of someone means they are loving them, well, sorry to break the news, JEALOUSY IS NOT LOVE.. it's actually fear and anger of losing love and it's easy to deal with once you understand the reason behind it and what it's trying to teach you. Here are ome tips on how to control your jealousy... Keep your trust in your guy. It's normal to have friends of the opposite gender, just because they go for coffee or lunch together doesn't mean they are having an affair. Build your own self confidence and respect yourself. Someone with a low self-esteem is more likely to get jealous compared to someone confident. Be optimistic and stop worrying about something that hasn't happened yet, or might not happen at all it's a complete waste of time and energy. Be thankful for what you have. Don't overreact. Get an opinion or two from a close friend, it will help to rationalize your emotions. Don't let your imagination run wild, or you will fail to differentiate between fact and fiction. Always remember that no amount of nagging, monitoring, accusing, snooping, or guarding will prevent your partner from cheating or from you being hurt. Live by the rule to not let a mere case of jealousy ruin your relationship, whatever the issue is, do not jump into any conclusion before getting a clear picture on what's going on.