Jealousy Is Not Love!

I'm sure everyone have come across or dealt with a certain emotion called 'Jealousy'. Whether it's towards a friend, someone in the family or mainly just towards your significant other. It's one emotion that u just can't stop relating to girls, well, maybe coz it's obvious that some girls (no offence) get all green with envy for all the wrong reason. Many people get the wrong idea that by feeling jealous of someone means they are loving them, well, sorry to break the news, JEALOUSY IS NOT LOVE.. it's actually fear and anger of losing love and it's easy to deal with once you understand the reason behind it and what it's trying to teach you. Here are ome tips on how to control your jealousy... Keep your trust in your guy. It's normal to have friends of the opposite gender, just because they go for coffee or lunch together doesn't mean they are having an affair. Build your own self confidence and respect yourself. Someone with a low self-esteem is more likely to get jealous compared to someone confident. Be optimistic and stop worrying about something that hasn't happened yet, or might not happen at all it's a complete waste of time and energy. Be thankful for what you have. Don't overreact. Get an opinion or two from a close friend, it will help to rationalize your emotions. Don't let your imagination run wild, or you will fail to differentiate between fact and fiction. Always remember that no amount of nagging, monitoring, accusing, snooping, or guarding will prevent your partner from cheating or from you being hurt. Live by the rule to not let a mere case of jealousy ruin your relationship, whatever the issue is, do not jump into any conclusion before getting a clear picture on what's going on.